Monday, May 10, 2010

David was Joe's caregiver today. Everything went smoothly. They thought they were going to have some traffic issues because today was Emory's graduation ceremony but evidently they got up there in between it starting and finishing. Thank you David so much for all your time spent taking Joe to Emory!

Joe has 2 radiation treatment days left now! :)
It sure has been a fast 6 weeks. Now it will probably crawl because we have to wait until June 7th to have the MRI to find out what the treatment has done to the tumor. :(

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Let me go back a few days ago and catch up.

Carrie Ann & Bobby spent the night with us last Tuesday and brought dinner. Carrie Ann can put together a mean pot roast with the trimmings! It was sooooo good! I introduced Carrie Ann to Papa Joe's famous margaritas. Just like all who have tried them, Carrie Ann could not stop at one either. :) It was a good evening.

Wednesday Bobby & Carrie Ann were Joe's caregivers. Treatment went well with no hiccups. Thank you both!

Friday Cheryl was Joe's caregiver. Treatment went fine. Dr Crocker found out that the MGMT analysis had not been sent off yet from the biopsy. Long story but he got it rolling for us and we should have the results in a couple weeks. The analysis will tell us if Joe's system will be more accepting of the treatment(s) or not so much. It deals with the chromosomes/genetics. You have to read about it to better understand it because it's too hard for me to explain. It overall is the research aspect to help answer the hows and whys of brain tumors.

After treatment, Cheryl helped Joe take Josie to the Vet to get her shots up to date. Thank you Cheryl for everything you have done! You are the greatest!

Ed came by Friday night to continue working on the stone pad coming off the back porch. It is turning out nice. Thanks Ed!!!

I cut the grass/sod around our house Friday evening and left the other acres to cut the next day. However when I went to cut the rest of the grass on Saturday, we found our mower/tractor had been stolen! We made a police report but probably won't see it again. I did though find a FEDEX delivery at my front door. I received a gift certificate from Lily & Ava, our granddaughters for Spa Sydell. Thank you girls! Granny Carol loves you!!!

Saturday my sons, Mark & Jordan came to the house and pressure washed our back porch & outdoor furniture for us. It is clean now and looks so much better. Thanks boys! I couldn't have done it without you. You 2 mean so much to me! Love you!

We then grilled out Saturday evening and Sarah & Cheryl joined us. The pork tenderloin could have melted in your mouth. It was so good! Later we sat around the fire pit with a fire listening to music and watching the stars in the sky. It was a beautiful clear and cool night! We had Joe bundled up with a stocking cap for his head and blankets to keep him warm and comfortable. We ended the evening with our theme song, I'm Alive................

Sunday morning, we fixed a family favorite breakfast casserole & biscuits. For Mother's Day Mark, Jordan & Sarah gave me a gift certificate to pamper myself at Flaunt, a local spa salon in Covington! Thank you so much! I love you!

Before the kids left Sunday, Joe had Sarah make a large sign and staked it at the edge of the road in front of the house that reads "I Have A Brain Tumor. Bring My Mower Back!"

Hope all you Mothers had as good of a Mother's Day as I had! I sure won't forget it! It was the best!

Love you Mark, Sarah, Jordan, Lindsey, Christopher, Shane, Heather, John, Lily & Ava!!

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Our weekend is starting off not so good!!! We just discovered our tractor mower has been stolen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is less than a year old. 3 acres is not going to be easy with a push mower. :(

Friday, May 7, 2010

The week has been a hard one. But before I say anymore I want to thank Christopher once again for being Joe's caregiver on Tuesday. Also I want to thanked Carrie Ann & Bobby too for being Joe's caregiver on Wednesday.

We could not have gone through the radiation treatment the past 5-6 weeks without each and every one of you who volunteered your time to be Joe's caregiver. This has helped Joe in so many ways but most of all he was able to spend the time with each of you. It also helped me in allowing me to work and maintain my job. Thank you!

So as far as how the week has gone.................it has been some long & emotional days & nights.

Joe's labs this week showed that his platelets have dropped some more. After discussing with Dr Voloschin yesterday we will get Joe's labs next week and if they are the same or lower, Joe will stop the clinical trial drug. If his platelets increase we will know that the trial drug was probably the cause of the lowering platelets. Then that will allow the platelets to increase and he will take the chemo drug with the maintenance plan of 5 days per month at a higher dosage. If the platelets do not increase then we will discuss another type of chemo therapy drug.

I told you that the MRI was scheduled for June 7th and we have now scheduled the results appointment for June 8th with both doctors.

As you all know last weekend resulted in Joe increasing his steroid dosage. The newest side effect has been behavioral such as irritability. Christopher & I got to experience it this
week:( The fatigue has increased alot due to the radiation. He has lost more weight.

Joe & I were at Emory from 9:30am to 2:30pm yesterday. Part of the reason for the long day was the radiation machine had a motor problem! By the end of the day, it was evident that Joe was the most fatigued I had seen so far.

Monday, May 3, 2010

David was Joe's caregiver today. They had the rain to deal with as far as traffic today. They left a little early to compensate for this and ended up having to wait on radiation staff because they had a flood in the department that they had to deal with. Joe had a new Tech today that will finish out the treatments with him. Joe is down to 7 treatments left of radiation!!!

David brought Joe home instead of taking him to work. The fatigue is increasing now that he is into the 5th week of radiation. Thank you David for all your help today including checking on our pressure washing starting up ok for what I need to use it for this coming up weekend. Thank you!!!

Christopher is here tonight spending his usual Monday night for caregiver duties tomorrow. We met in town at Amici's for pizza. It sure was good but I don't think Dr Lanclos would have been happy. Do you think, Lisa?!?! Probably not!

Carol
Joe did end up sleeping the majority of the day on Saturday. Cheryl brought dinner and spent some time with us. She also did a little grocery shopping for me. Thank you Cheryl!

On Sunday morning he got up with a little nausea but not as bad as Saturday. We worked through that and later in the morning was able to have a good breakfast, coffee & a long conversation..............

We were suppose to go see my parents Sunday but instead they came to see us. Dad brought me Publix's carrot cake because he knows how much I love it and his homemade broccoli soup. Yummy Dad! I love you both so much!

We ended the weekend Sunday night with sitting out on our covered back porch, a good rain breeze in the air, candles burning & some of our favorite music playing. I had Joe all bundled up in a blanket cause he tends to get cold now days. He really was in his own little safe haven chilling out to the music and singing along! We played the song over and over Kenny Chesney's I'm Alive (with Dave Matthews). We have made it our theme song for this journey we are on.................

So damn easy to say that life's so hard

Everybody's got their share of battle scars

As for me, I'd like to thank my lucky stars that I'm alive and well...

It'd be easy to add up all the pain

And all the dreams you sat and watched go up in flames

Dwell on the wreckage as it smolders in the rain

But not me...I'm alive


And today you know that's good enough for me

Breathin' in and out's a blessing can't you see

Today's the first day of the rest of my life and I'm alive

And well...I'm alive and well


The stars are dancin' on the water here tonight

It's gonna fall a soul when there's not a soul in sight

This boat has caught its wind and brought me back to life now

I'm alive and well...


And today you know that's good enough for me

Breathin' in and out's a blessing can't you see

Today's the first day of the rest of my life and I'm alive

And well...I'm alive and well

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Wanted to thank Scott for taking Joe to treatment yesterday. Thank you!

Yesterday Joe had a headache(the first). It was a dull headache and not in any one spot. As we got into the evening he still had it and he became very weak in his legs. He had to have my help to walk. I called the physician on call and went over all symptoms. He has increased the steroid dosage and was to contact Dr Crocker today to advise for approval and then get back to me.

He had a restless night last night. He got up this morning with legs still weak & the headache. He also had his first episode of nausea & vomiting. He eat some dry toast, took a nausea pill and took a mild pain killer that the docs had prescribed in case needed. He has slept most of the day so far.

Carol